how to become a witch: ideas for your year and a day

how to become a witch: ideas for your year and a day

I wrote a post a while ago that was my top 10 tips for a beginner witch, but since then I’ve gotten a lot of comments looking for a post that goes more into detail about HOW to start practicing witchcraft.

Some traditions of witchcraft will recommend that you spend a period of a year and a day studying the craft before you officially call yourself a witch. While I definitely am not one for rules of any kind (and I’m even less here for gatekeepers telling others when it’s okay to call themselves a witch or not), I personally did my own year and a day study and I found it to be a great way to explore the different facets of witchcraft without committing to anything. I had a real problem identifying as a “witch” at first because of all the connotations that come along with it, but during that yearlong journey I felt much more comfortable with it as I learned more and more about what it meant and where it came from!

But don’t be mistaken in thinking your year-and-a-day journey is meant to keep you away from the craft before you decide to join. On the contrary, it should be an intense, hands-on, headfirst dive into witchcraft and all it has to offer before you decide if it’s right for you or not. Today I’ve compiled a list of 8 ideas for your year-and-a-day journey to help you structure a lesson plan of sorts

DISCLAIMER: these are ideas for creating your own year-and-a-day study. If you’re interested in a particular tradition of Wicca or witchcraft, they will likely have their own lessons/tasks for you to complete in that time frame. These tips can be done alongside any of those traditions, as there’s no harm in learning more! 🙂

how to become a witch: ideas for your year and a day

1. read everything you can

When I was first starting out on my path, I took everything I read as the gospel truth. The longer I studied witchcraft, however, the more I realized that truth is so subjective. Even people who claim to have witchcraft in their blood can be wrong, and just because one group believes one thing doesn’t mean that belief works for you. I honestly recommend reading everything you can to introduce yourself to as many viewpoints as possible in order to help you uncover what beliefs resonate with you!

If you’re looking for some good books to start with, I have a list of resources available to you if you sign up for my newsletter 🙂 (ok I know I haven’t actually sent out a newsletter in forever BUT 2019 is gonna be my year, baby!)

2. go outside

Honestly, such a big part of witchcraft for me has been just connecting to nature. You can read all the books you want, but you’re missing out on a wealth of experiences if you never go outside! You don’t have to know every plant or meditate on a rock by the ocean for an hour every day, but taking walks, soaking up the sun, and quietly observing nature is key to feeling comfortable and secure in the world around you.

Witchcraft can feel overwhelming at first – there are so many plants to learn, herbs to use, crystals to memorize, and more. But you don’t have to learn it all at once (or ever!) The first step is going into your own backyard and wondering “huh, what kind of tree is that?” Once you look it up, that’s one plant you’re on the path to working with in your own magickal practice. Take it one step at a time, find out what’s going on in your natural surroundings, and you’ll be surprised how much you end up learning!

(I also recommend looking into your state’s Naturalist program if they have one, if nature is really your thing. I’m doing the Tennessee Naturalist Program right now and it’s a FANTASTIC resource. Most states have them I think, so check it out and sign up!)

how to become a witch: ideas for your year and a day

3. listen to your intuition

This one is hard, because we live in a culture that tells people they’re “crazy” for following their heart instead of their head. But how many times have you had a nagging feeling about something you ignored, only for it to be right later? We’re taught to look at the facts, which is of course important – our feelings are influenced by a lot of things and can certainly be wrong. But once you learn to differentiate your intuition from a fleeting feeling, you can tap into that inherent inner knowledge whenever you want!

I don’t have any good recommendations of how to do this other than to check back in with your feelings about a situation at different times. For example, if you have a bad feeling about a relationship, check in with yourself both when you’re with the person and when you’re not. If you feel great when you’re together and only anxious when you’re apart, could that just be separation anxiety? A lack of communication making you feel distant? Or if you have a sinking feeling even when you’re together, could something more be going on?

There are plenty of people who have written way more eloquently than I have on the subject, so I encourage you to find them 🙂

4. keep a journal

So important!! KEEP A JOURNAL!! This doesn’t have to be an official Book of Shadows by any means (but it can be if you want.) This doesn’t even have to be formal at all. Every time you have a magickal experience, listen to your intuition, draw a tarot card, or try a spell, WRITE ABOUT IT. Write what you did and how it made you feel, write what you think it means for you in the big picture, write anything you want – just please keep a record of it all. This will make your life so much easier in the long run!

Keeping a journal will help you see your own progression and identify what works for you, what you maybe can do differently, and what you flat-out don’t want in your practice. It will remind you of the good things magick has brought to your life when you’re feeling doubtful. Most of all, though, it will be fun to look back on later and see where you started out!

how to become a witch: ideas for your year and a day

5. learn new skills

Are you interested in runes? Give them a try! Always loved crystals? Learn more about them! You don’t have to master anything in particular during this year-and-a-day (in fact, I think it’s pretty rare that anyone could master ANYTHING in just a year) but you’ve gotta try things out in order to see if they work for you, and I mean that. I thought tarot was a bunch of hooey before I got my hands dirty and tried it out for myself, and now it’s a core part of my practice. You might surprise yourself – this is a time to try out everything with no pressure at all to pursue it long-term, but you might find some things you love and will continue to study in the future.

6. do some research

Ho boy, is this ever important. Friends, the history of witchcraft is laced with bullsh*t. There’s so much “fake news” out there, so many “ancient traditions” that actually have only been around for a few decades, so many “one true way” to do things that are actually totally arbitrary. PLEASE do your research. Read the classics, yes – read Buckland, read Valiente, read Starhawk, read them all. They are part of our history even if you don’t subscribe to Wicca or any particular tradition of witchcraft. But please know that these things were written in a different time and place, and many of them are either made up or based on false premises (or are simply outdated.)

If you read a text, please also Google it and see what other witches have to say about it. For example, I never would have known Silver Ravenwolf was problematic when starting out – it was only once I saw some critical interpretations of her work that I realized wow, that’s… not great. I still found value in her books and they certainly helped me along my path, but I can accept them for that while also rejecting the fact that she cites a lot of fake history, encourages problematic behaviors, and makes a lot of claims about “ALL witches” that certainly not all witches believe.

Many witchy books are rife with cultural appropriation, false history, or “facts” that simply aren’t true. It’s hard to know what to believe when starting out, but if something feels off to you, it probably is. Don’t accept anything as the gospel truth. It’s up to you to figure out what you believe and how you practice, not to be dictated it by someone else.

how to become a witch: ideas for your year and a day

7. try a spell

Why not! Spells and rituals are half the fun of witchcraft, right? Many witches try to spook newcomers by saying things like “oooooh you never know WHAT will happen when you perform a spell, be caaaareful, you must be a maaaaster” but that’s really not true for the most part. I mean, maybe don’t try summoning a demon or anything in your first week as a witch-in-training, but you’ll never become comfortable with practicing spells unless you try them for yourself.

Learn how to cast a circle if it will make you feel more secure – I did this at first but don’t anymore. Start small with mostly-foolproof things like making a witch jar, trying a glamour for confidence, or doing some bath magic (the witch community on Tumblr is a great resource for simple spells.)

Sure, your spell might backfire. It’s happened to me more than once. But nobody died and I learned from the experience. Don’t let the fear of failure keep you from ever really trying.

8. figure out what you believe

Last but not least, it’s time to put everything you learned together. Bring it back to that journal you’ve been keeping throughout the year (you DID keep one, right?) and start to pencil out what, exactly, you believe about magick and witchcraft. Do you believe in deities? What about astrology? Are crystals just pretty accessories for you, or a source of vibrational magick? Do you like working with herbs, or do you have a black thumb? Would you consider yourself a green witch, a hedgewitch, or none of the above? Do you think divination is magick or simply psychology? What might you like to learn more about in the future?

Know that your beliefs can and probably will change many times throughout your journey, and that’s okay. That’s called growth! Witchcraft isn’t static: it’s a moving, living thing. It’s within you and anyone who wants to take up the call. All you have to do is answer.

 

And that’s my list! I’m going to end this by saying that while a year is a good, long time to think about becoming a witch, you don’t have to wait a whole year if you don’t want to. If you’re on month three and realize holy crap, this is your CALLING, then so be it. The only requirement to being a witch is to decide you are a witch. And that’s that!

Do you have anything to add? Did you do a year-and-a-day study? Let me hear all about it in the comments!

my top 10 most-used tools for witchcraft

my top 10 most-used tools for witchcraft

Howdy, friends! A question I get asked a lot by baby witches is “what do I need to have on hand in order to be a witch?” The answer, of course, is: nothing at all! Witchcraft comes from within you, and you can do spells and rituals without a single prop.

That said, of course, there are a few tools I have found useful and enjoy using in my practice. These are some basic things that can be used in different combinations for whatever witchy thing you’re trying to do. If you do want to have some tools available to you, these are some good ones to keep on hand.

Now, I should mention that this is a list of MY top 10 tools for witchcraft. There are some notable things missing from this list, like an athame or a wand, that I just don’t use right now. It’s worth looking into what other tools are out there if you’re not sold on all of these (or if you just want to expand your options!)

For this post, I’m going to keep the headings general in order to explain why each thing is valuable to my practice, but then I’ll also be giving you the juicy scoop on what I specifically use.  Affiliate links might be used, which just means that if you purchase it through the link, I make a tiny commission at no extra cost to you! Here we go!

my top 10 most-used tools for witchcraft

1. tarot deck

Not every witch reads tarot, so this might not be for everyone, but tarot was what started me down this whole witchy journey so it will always have a place in my heart. I use tarot for divination, yes, but also for spellwork – the archetypes depicted in the cards help me with manifestation or focusing on specific themes I need help with.

My favorite: I truly can’t choose just one. The deck I’m most in tune with is the Prisma Visions Tarot, but I also adore the Moonchild Tarot, the Linestrider Tarot, and of course the Wild Unknown.

2. crystals

Crystals! What can I say? I’m a believer in the vibrational healing qualities of crystals. (If you want to learn more about this, I recommend the book Vibrational Medicine – it’s written in a very science-y way but is super informative.) Crystals can help amplify your intention in spellcraft, provide you with a little boost when you’re feeling down, and also look super pretty on your altar or as home decor. No shame in  liking them just for that!

My favorite: It’s hard! I’ve always been drawn to fluorite, but of course I love them all. My crystals have all been accumulated from several Etsy shops over the years, like this one, this one, and this one.

3. cleansing spray

I don’t like burning sage, so I use a room cleansing spray instead. I even use it on myself with a combination of crystals when I feel like I need to recharge. If you can’t burn things in your living space or just don’t like the smell of burning sage, a cleansing spray can do the exact same thing to clear the energy of a room.

My favorite: I actually make my own using essential oils! You can find the recipe in part one of Practical Magick for Modern Witches, but I might share it here in the future too.

my top 10 most-used tools for witchcraft

4. incense & incense holder

Okay, I’m going to admit: incense isn’t really a tool I use for witchcraft itself as much as something I use to set the mood. But that’s important, right? I love burning incense during rituals and tarot readings, and find it useful because it represents the elements of fire and air all at once. (I usually have a candle going for fire and use the incense to represent air, but you can kill two birds with one stone if you wanna!)

My favorite: I don’t know where my incense holder is from, but it’s nothing special. My favorite incense is the Triloka brand’s lavender incense. It smells so good and helps me sleep like a baby!

5. candles

Witches love candles! You knew this was going to be on this list. I don’t know what it is about candles, but they’re just the perfect all-purpose tool and often what I use for super quick spells or mini-rituals. I love having tons of candles on hand and on my altar.

My favorite: Honestly, I use super cheap white tealights for every single spell. I’m paranoid about re-using candles for other spells so once the spell or ritual is over, I just let the candle burn down completely. You can find some at the dollar store or get 72 for about $15 on Amazon. Not bad!

6. book of shadows

Your book of shadows is a place to record your witchy journey, whether that be spells you invent, keeping track of the moon, recipes you use for the Sabbats… what have you! Something similar is a grimoire, which is basically the same but less personal: a grimoire would be more like a reference book for your spells and rituals than a journal-like recording of your experiences.

I firmly believe that even if it’s messy and not at all #pinterestgoals, every witch should keep a grimoire or a book of shadows. Even though I do have one, I still forget to update it all the time and I’m always kicking myself when I can’t remember a spell I did or what ingredients I used in a magickal room spray. Write it all down!

My favorite: Yiiiikes, my book of shadows has historically been a mess. I started off in a postbound scrapbook but never used it because I was too intimidated, so I switched to a notebook which got too messy… Now I’m using a scrapbook for my “official” grimoire and then a different book as a “bullet book of shadows” which is like a bullet journal combined with a journal of my spiritual practice. (I’ll be sharing this in an upcoming post, so stay tuned!) The scrapbook is just a black one from Michael’s and the bullet journal is a black Lechtturm 1917 dot grid.

my top 10 most-used tools for witchcraft

7. essential oils

People have mixed feelings about essential oils, but I love them. Their earthy, natural scents are so calming, and they allow someone with a black thumb (like me) to work with plant and herb energies without needing to keep any plants alive.

My favorite: I’m not a distributor anymore, but I still love Young Living. They’re so transparent about what goes into their oils and I really love them as a company, as well. You’ll have to do some research to find the brand that’s right for you, but please be aware that cheap essential oils like the ones you find on Amazon or at the drugstore are full of chemical fillers or perfume oils and are NOT the real thing. It can be dangerous to use these on your skin! Essential oils can be expensive to produce and don’t cost the same from plant to plant, so if you see a store offering rose oil for the same price as lemon, run away!

8. reference books

Oh hi, my favorite part! I’m a book lover through and through. I feel like the act of reading books about witchcraft alone makes me feel connected to my practice and I try to make time to read and learn more on a regular basis. There’s always more to learn!

My favorites: Drawing Down the Moon by Margot Adler is essential reading for all witches, no matter your path. It gives you a look at the history of the modern witchcraft movement and debunks some common myths that are perpetuated in the community. I also recommend The Black Toad by Gemma Gary for some Cornish folk magic, To Walk a Pagan Path by Alaric Albertsson for integrating your witchery into your daily life, and also weirdly Wicca: A Guide for the Solitary Practitioner by Scott Cunningham is one I keep going back to even though I wouldn’t identify as strictly Wiccan.

9. jars

Ah, jars. Jars are super versatile and useful. You can use them as containers to hold things, as makeshift candleholders, as altar decorations, or in spellwork (protection jars are my favorite thing to make when I move into a new place!) It helps to keep a few empty jars on hand for when you’re in a pinch.

My favorites: I ended up finding some jars at the grocery store when I was making infused alcohol a few years ago, so these are the ones I currently have on hand. However, this is a great opportunity to recycle! If your jam has expired, clean out the jar and use that. It’s fun to have a variety of jars of all shapes and sizes to use for everything!

10. dried herbs and spices

By this I don’t mean the fancy bundles of dried herbs you see hanging in witch cottages in the movies (although would I like to have that? very much yes.) I mean literally the kind of dried herbs you find in the spice aisle to put in soup or whatever. These can also be used in spellcraft! Things like rosemary, sage, cinnamon, garlic, parsley, and basil are all common spices with powerful magickal correspondences. Having a well-stocked spice cabinet is a great way to make sure you always have some witchy tools on hand while also making the most flavorful stews you ever did try.

My favorites: I don’t have favorites, I literally just buy the cheapest thing at the grocery store. That’s it!

So that’s my list! I hope you found something useful here (and maybe discovered that you already have some powerful tools at your disposal!) Are there any other posts you’d like to see, for beginner witches or otherwise? Let me know! I’m on a writing kick this week and I’m excited to bring you more posts soon! <3

how to host a dumb supper for samhain

how to host a dumb supper for samhain

This lesson is an excerpt from The Modern Witch’s Guide to Samhain, the newest e-course from the Lavender + Lupine School of Magick! For $15, you can get 12 lessons like this that will help you celebrate Samhain in style. I hope you enjoy this preview of the course!

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A dumb supper is the tradition of hosting a dinner party where everyone must be silent the entire time. The idea is that, while the veil is thin, the spirits of the dead are better able to commune with the living—but only if you’re listening. A symbolic place is set for the spirits, either adorned with photos and mementos as an invitation for a specific loved one or left plain to be more general. Everyone then enjoys a meal together in silence.

The dumb supper is a way to honor the dead as well as to make room for any messages they might have for us. (I will mention, though, that although silence is encouraged, this will not be a pleasant experience for anyone who hates the sound of chewing. Soft, instrumental music may be played in the background to provide a bit of white noise if needed.)

If you’d like to host your own dumb supper this year, either solo or with a group, here are some ideas!

The Menu

What does one eat at a dumb supper? Of course any meal would do, but this is a great opportunity to be intentional and to choose relevant, symbolic foods or dishes. Foods associated with Samhain are always appropriate, of course, but you might want to consider taking that a step further and serving foods traditionally associated with the afterlife.

For example, pomegranates are heavily associated with the story of Persephone and the underworld, so those are a great thing to incorporate. Wine, mead, and olive oil have been common offerings to the dead throughout history, and wine and mead have the added benefit of putting us in a slightly hazy state, which some people find helps them tap into their magic or overcome their inhibitions. (Please imbibe responsibly – I certainly do not advocate for drunken spirit work!)

More ideas: cook dishes relevant to your cultural heritage, things your ancestors would have enjoyed when they were alive. Alternately, if you follow a particular historical tradition of witchcraft or Paganism, you can make dishes from that culture as well. See if there are any foods associated with your deities, if you have any. Craft a menu that’s meaningful to you and your guests. You might even want to make this a potluck and ask each person to bring a dish that’s relevant to them.

The Decor

The room and decor should be very dark. A black tablecloth is traditional, as is lighting the room with only candles. This is to help heighten your senses and make you more aware of sensations other than sight alone.

It’s ideal to set a place for each person as well as one extra for the spirits. If you could set an extra place for each person that will be present, that would be great, but most tables are not that big! While the dinner can be as formal or casual as you’d like it to be, it’s fun to dress things up and break out the fine china if you can – not to mention it’s more respectful to the dead. Some people like to drape the spirit chair in a black or white cloth as a symbolic gesture.

Typically the more black, the better. If you have black plates, napkins, and serving bowls that’s great. If not, you can decide whether to buy paper ones or if it’s more important to you to have a very formal vibe.

Since no one will be allowed to speak during the meal, plan in advance for your guests’ needs. Clearly label where the restrooms are if your guests are new to your home, and make sure each end of the table has salt and pepper shakers as well as any other garnishes the meal might need. No one will be able to ask if they need something passed, so this is important for the enjoyment of your guests!

Other than that, try to keep the decorations classy. While it’s a spooky time of year, it could be considered disrespectful to deck out your home with cartoony Halloween decorations when you’re expecting visitors from the other side.

The Dinner

Now all that’s left is to host the dinner! The idea is that no one speaks throughout the entire time they are in the dining room. I don’t think it’s cheating if you have a little huddle beforehand though, where you explain what’s happening, what sort of experiences to be aware of, and how the guests will be served. You might also want to begin by cleansing the energy of the room and/or casting a circle if that’s part of your practice.

No one should begin eating until everyone is served, including the spirit chair, and you might want to start with a silent prayer or message to the spirits, your deities, or the universe.

During the dinner, try to stay aware and anticipate the needs of your guests. Work out a signal for if someone needs a drink refill and have a clear signal for when the dinner is concluded.

After the meal, you can either silently disband or move to an adjoining room to contemplate the experience. You can use this time to share memories of your loved ones, lead the group in a ritual, or continue to commune with the spirits through methods such as divination.

I would recommend having everyone write down their experiences so they can continue looking back on this night and processing any messages they received in the days to come. Sometimes messages from the other side can be vague until it clicks into place later.

While there should be some strict enforcing of the no-talking rule, this is only a good time if everyone enjoys themselves. You can take some liberties with the way you do things in order to make yourself and your guests comfortable. Most importantly, though, understand that some of your guests might have an emotional reaction, whether it’s sadness, fear, joy, or something else entirely. Be prepared to hold space for them after and comfort them in whatever way they need.

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If you liked this lesson, consider picking up The Modern Witch’s Guide to Samhain for just $15! We’d love to have you in class! <3

a litha change-making ritual

the modern witch's guide to litha

Hi friends! Litha is this week, hooray! This Sabbat is one of my favorites, because it seems like everything is lighthearted and happy and celebratory.

Of course, the Lavender + Lupine School of Magick has come out with a course all about Litha to help you celebrate it right! It’s only $15, so click here to check it out! 

Below is an excerpt of what you’ll find in the course – a little Litha ritual to help prepare you for the darker months ahead.

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Midsummer marks the longest day of sunlight before the slow advance of winter. It’s a great time for many kinds of rituals: love, manifestation, abundance, protection. This ritual will focus on stoking your inner fire and finding your strength for the dark months ahead.

You will need:

  • A mirror (preferably one that can stand on its own, if not you’ll have to prop it up or hold it)
  • Paper
  • A pen
  • A match or lighter
  • A candle
  • A flameproof dish
  1. Do any pre-ritual cleansing that appeals to you (or none at all if that’s your thing.) Sit down in a dark, quiet area. It shouldn’t be pitch black, but there should be no lights on except the candle you’re about to light. If you’d like, meditate for a few moments to prepare yourself.
  2. Light your candle and place it and your mirror in front of you. Stare deeply into your own eyes. Think about the qualities about yourself you’d like to change – not physical qualities, but things like bad habits or behaviors you know are problematic and you’re ready for them to stop. Some examples: negative self-talk, selfishness in your relationship, distancing yourself from loved ones, biting your nails… the list goes on.
  3. Take a moment to write these things down on your paper. Get messy with this – channel all of your feelings about these behaviors into your piece of paper. Scribble, rip, smear, do whatever you need to do in order to let it all out.
  4. Tear the paper up and put the pieces into your flameproof bowl.
  5. Pick up your match or lighter and light the paper pieces on fire. As you do so, say aloud, “A change begins now and it begins with me.”
  6. As the paper burns, stare deeply into your mirror once more. This time, you’re going to make a promise to yourself. Making eye contact with your reflection, think about what you wrote on the paper and tell yourself how it will be different. For example, “Where I have been cruel, I will be kind. Where I have been weak, I will be strong. Where I have been careless, I will be thorough.” Repeat these words over and over again until the flames have burned out.
  7. If you’d like, you can close your ritual with a statement like “As I will, so mote it be” or an equivalent. Extinguish your candle and dispose of the ashes as you see fit.

If you like this little ritual, you’ll love our Litha course, where you’ll learn how to make an outdoor offering bowl, a Litha diffuser blend, some delicious summer recipes, and the history behind Midsummer itself! Click here to check it out! <3

5 things to do when your craft feels stale

5 things to do when your craft feels stale

We all get in a spiritual rut from time to time, but even if you understand that, it’s still hard once you’re in the middle of it. I find I struggle with impostor syndrome to the max – like “are you even a real witch if you don’t cook a huge feast for every Sabbat and go for long nature walks every day and get personal daily texts from the moon about what phases she’s in?” (The answer is of course! None of these things are what make you a witch. And the moon is very selective about who has her phone number, I’ve heard.)

Although it’s totally normal to go through times where we aren’t as active in our spiritual practice, it can be frustrating if you miss that part of yourself and just feel like nothing can get that spark back.

This has happened to me so many times over the past few years of really diving deep into my spirituality, so trust me, I’ve been there! Today I thought I’d share five different things I like to do to re-energize my spiritual practice when things feel a little stale.

5 things to do when your craft feels stale

1. revisit your book of shadows

This is something I do all. the. time. because I’m indecisive and a perfectionist and can’t decide what I want my Book of Shadows/grimoire to look like or what purpose I want it to serve, but sometimes the idea of starting over and documenting my spiritual journey afresh can breathe new life into what I’ve been doing.

Flip through the book of shadows, grimoire, or other spiritual journals you’ve been keeping so far. How do they make you feel? How can you do them better? Maybe you don’t need to scrap what you already have, but just need to spend some time updating them to suit your current practice. Maybe you’ll find you want to keep an additional journal to fill a gap in your practice. Or maybe just looking at the progress you’ve made so far is enough to get you excited about your craft again!

I’m currently in the process of re-doing my BoS because I felt confined by the fact that I couldn’t move my pages around – they’re in a sketchbook right now. So instead, I’m moving to a postbound scrapbook. That way I can take out and change pages as my practice changes! I also wanted my BoS to be more like an evergreen resource than a journal of my personal practice, so I started an art journal for my reflections on spirituality and the Sabbats and that’s been working well so far! But working on those things got me really excited to spend time with my practice again.

2. look to others for inspiration

One of the major reasons I kept getting stuck early on in my practice was that… I didn’t really know what a spiritual practice looked like. Do I meditate every day? How often should I do moon rituals?? What do I do with this giant bundle of fresh lavender??? WHY WON’T THE SAGE STAY LIT?!?!?

Even if you’ve been secure in your spirituality for a while, sometimes looking at how other people practice can help give you ideas of what might be missing from your own craft.

For example, reading about The Snow Orchid Witch’s magickal morning routine really inspired me to take a look at MY morning routine and make some changes depending on how I wanted to feel! I might never have thought anything was wrong with my system until I saw one that was more in line with what I want my mornings to look like. Reading blogs, watching witchy YouTube videos, and scrolling Tumblr are all great places to find some witchspiration.

5 things to do when your craft feels stale

3. read a good book

I don’t know about you, but reading a good spiritual book always gets me back in the mood to do some witchery. Sometimes you just need to have your horizons broadened a little and explore some new concepts to get a better idea of where you want to go in your practice.

I’ve never worked with deities in my practice, but recently I’ve been reading more about the Norse pantheon. Even though I’m not ready to work with any deities, I feel like learning more about them helped me expand my worldview a little more and inspired me to rethink my current practice and where I might like to go with it in the future.

I have a whole list of books I recommend in my Resource Library, which you can get access to simply by subscribing to my mailing list! The password is in the introductory email and towards the bottom of my regular newsletters. (If you forgot the password, just shoot me an email and I can refresh your memory 🙂 )

4. learn a new skill

This one is my favorite! If your craft feels a little stale as it is, why not try learning something new? This could be pressing flowers to use in your grimoire, trying out a new system of divination like runes or scrying, diving into the world of crystal healing, or incorporating essential oils into your practice for the first time (heyyyy, I can help with that ;D)

Really anything can be witchcraft if you do it with intention, so this isn’t limited to “magickal” practices. Try things like planting and tending an herb garden, learning to identify local plants, volunteering outdoors, or getting in touch with the “old ways” by canning and preserving seasonal fruits and veggies.

5 things to do when your craft feels stale

5. make a list

What do you want your spiritual practice to look like? Sometimes all it takes is making a list of the things you want to be doing, and then doing them! Do you really want to make daily tarot a part of your life? Big Sabbat celebrations? Regular meditation? Write it down!

Once you have a list of all the things you’d like to be doing, use it to make a plan. Maybe you know you won’t have time to draw a tarot card every morning before work, but you can squeeze it in at night before bed and use it to reflect on your day instead. Maybe you don’t need to journal EVERY day, but you can designate an hour every Sunday as your journaling time. Find a way to work these things into your schedule (and don’t feel pressured to do everything. No one can do everything!)

 

Above all, don’t beat yourself up if you’re feeling stuck or unmotivated in your spiritual practice. I feel like there’s this weird pressure from social media to be doing witchy stuff ALL the time when in reality, your spirituality should serve YOUR needs. There are days I don’t do a single witchy thing and other days I do the most, you know? If you’re not feeling a huge need to do moon rituals or read tarot every day at this point in your life, that’s fine! Everything happens in cycles and we’ll never be able to give 100% all the time.

Have you ever been in a rut with your spiritual practice? How did you get out of it? Let me know in the comments, I’d love to hear all about it! <3

spiritual state of the union

my current witchy spiritual beliefs

This post is probably going to be a bit on the rambly side, so I apologize in advance, but I thought it would be fitting to start off the new year with some musings on my current spirituality and where I am in my path (both for my own reference and so you know what you’re getting into by reading my posts, haha!)

I also just want to let you guys know that even if your spiritual path is very different from mine, please don’t feel unwelcome or unwanted in this space. This blog is for everyone, and even if we have different opinions or experiences I think we can learn so much from each other! With that said, here are a few thoughts on my current spiritual beliefs and what my plans are for 2018.

my current witchy spiritual beliefs

The things I know for sure: my spirituality is deeply rooted in the earth. I believe humanity’s salvation lies in reconnecting with nature and in empathy for all living creatures. I don’t kill or harm anything or anyone in my practice (although I’m all for other people cursing if that’s what works for them!) I’m interested in learning more about plants and how to work with them medicinally and spiritually, and volunteering outside to tend the earth is high on my priority list for this year.

I’m not vegan, but I am mindful about the food I eat and where it comes from. I eat mostly plant-based with some organic, humanely raised meat thrown in the mix. I think it’s important that when financially possible, we support companies that are working to do good in the world even if it costs a little extra. But I also feel strongly that diet is personal and eating organic is a privilege. Not every diet can or will work for everyone, and not everyone is in a place where they can afford to pay more for the food they eat and that’s okay.

I believe that we are all energy and that energy connects us all. I believe there is a collective consciousness that we can all access if we so choose. I believe that crystals are powerful tools for healing and that tarot can help us unlock our deepest secrets. I believe, to an extent, in reincarnation, although this is a belief that needs further exploring to put my finger on exactly what I think. I follow the Wheel of the Year and the cycles of the moon, and these help me stay grounded.

my current witchy spiritual beliefs

I’ve never been in a coven and I’m still not sure if it would be right for me (if only because my own path is kind of all over the place, so it would be hard to find a group of people that were 100% on board with the things I believe) but I do think I’ll be seeking out some in-person Pagan groups or meetups in 2018. The solitary path can be incredibly lonely, and it would be so fun to have a group to celebrate the Sabbats or have deep spiritual conversations with. If you know of any groups in the Nashville area, let me know – I’d love to check them out!

my current witchy spiritual beliefs

In 2017 I went back to my roots and did some reading about Wicca. When I first started my path I knew that wasn’t the right road for me – I knew that in order to discover what felt right for me, I couldn’t ascribe to anything with its own set of rules or structure. Now, though, I find myself craving more structure in my practice, and I’ve sort of done the opposite of what most people do: people tend to start with Wicca and then leave in favor of finding their own path, but I’m drifting more towards Wicca now that I realize how much my own path aligns with it.

In real life I tend to tell people I’m Wiccan because it’s easier than explaining the concept of witchcraft, but it’s not really that simple. I struggle with the idea of deities as beings – I can get on board with deities as a form of energy, but I don’t think that working with them as actual divine beings is something that will ever work for me. That’s a core tenet of Wicca, of course, is working with the God and the Goddess, so it feels wrong to want to call myself that if I can’t get on board with what’s at the heart of the belief, but I’ve also read that there are non-theistic Wiccans so who knows? It’s something I’ll be investigating more in 2018 for sure, as well as unpacking my resistance to working with deities and whether that’s a true belief or if something is holding me back.

I don’t know why I feel such a strong need to label myself or why I balk at referring to myself as a witch outside of this community. I think I’m really just afraid of being judged or misunderstood, which is a silly way to live your life. I’m hoping 2018 will bring some answers about the direction of my path and what’s right for me.

my current witchy spiritual beliefs

Towards the end of 2017, I really fell off the wagon when it came to spiritual practice. I felt so fulfilled over the summer by routinely making time for meditation, gratitude, and ritual, but these things were first to fall by the wayside once things got chaotic in the fall and into winter. I’m hoping I can find a balance of doing these things regularly in 2018 without feeling guilty or ashamed if I just can’t or don’t want to make the time for one reason or another. It’s hard carving out space for yourself when you don’t live alone, but I think for my own spiritual health I’m going to have to find a way.

my current witchy spiritual beliefs

Druidry is something I’m still very interested in. Moving to Nashville gives me the opportunity to connect with a new environment and I’m planning on learning as much as I can about the local plant and wildlife. I’m going to start the Druidry course from the OBOD over again once I move to Nashville, since it seemed kind of silly to go through all the effort of learning about Wisconsin’s natural wonders when I knew I was going to be leaving.

my current witchy spiritual beliefs

This year I wondered a lot about Jesus. I was raised Catholic and taught the religion through what was essentially brainwashing from an early age. Once I broke away from that religion I resisted any mention of Jesus and I still feel panicky when surrounded by deeply Christian people. (Not because I have anything against people who are Christian, but just because it gives me flashbacks to my uncomfortable youth.)

The problem I’m having now is that I’ve had Jesus come up as a “sign” at several points in the past few years, but I can’t tell if it’s an actual sign I should trust or if it’s my subconscious coming back to haunt me. I know there are Christian witches out there and believing in Jesus doesn’t mean my path thus far has been wrong, but I just feel deeply distressed that I can’t trust my own mind or experiences on this.

I don’t think this is something I’m ready to deal with yet, but at some point in the future I think I’ll look more into Christian witchcraft or those who work with Jesus as an Ascended Master just to hear about other peoples’ experiences. I harbor a lot of resentment towards my Catholic upbringing because I’m still dealing with the repercussions of it today, and I think I’m going to need to do a lot of work to heal my soul before I can look at any aspect of Christianity objectively.

(Don’t worry, guys – I’d never pull a Doreen Virtue on y’all. Just some thoughts I’ve been having lately.)

It seems to me that my times of soul work come in cycles. 2014 was a big year for that, and so was 2016. I’m thinking that as soon as the dust settles from my big move to Nashville, 2018 will end up being the same. I’m really looking forward to learning as much as I can and finding small, simple ways to integrate my spirituality into my daily life even when things get busy. Here’s to a new year and to figuring out where to go from here!

If you have any experiences with any of this, or if you have any resources you’d like to recommend, let me know in the comments – I’d love to hear your thoughts!

diy magickal sleep spray (+ a new e-course!)

Hey witches! I’m so happy to announce that after months of hard work, The Witch of Lupine Hollow and I have launched our newest course from the Lavender + Lupine School of Magick, Practical Magick for Modern Witches: Part Two! While it’s billed as a “part two” to the first Practical Magick course, you don’t need to take the first one in order to enjoy the second. The first course covers more of the basics of witchcraft while this second one goes more in-depth about some deeper topics such as history, working with deities, finding your ancestral witchcraft traditions, and more ways to fit magick into your everyday life.

To celebrate the launch of the course, today I’m sharing one of the magickal techniques from one of our lessons: a DIY magickal sleep spray! This spray will help you sleep soundly throughout the night and can aid in dream magick. You can buy sleep sprays at the store, but it’s cheap, easy, and way more magickal to make one yourself!

You will need:

  • A spray bottle
  • 1 oz witch hazel
  • Purified water
  • Lavender essential oil (if this is the only essential oil you have, you can triple the amount and omit the others)
  • Vetiver essential oil
  • Chamomile essential oil

Open the spray bottle and add your witch hazel. Add 10 drops each of Lavender, Vetiver, and Chamomile essential oils. Fill the rest of the way with the purified water and spritz away!

Lavender and chamomile are both calming oils that help you quiet your racing mind, while vetiver is a grounding, stabilizing oil that will help you stay asleep. The finished spray should smell woody and floral at the same time, but feel free to add more or less of the different oils if you don’t like the finished product – if you’re sensitive to smells, you might want to start with five drops of each oil rather than ten, then add more of whichever ones are needed.

If you use Young Living essential oils like me, Roman Chamomile will work just fine for this recipe 🙂 (And if you’re curious about why I chose Young Living, you can read all about it on my Essential Oils page!)

I hope you like this simple recipe, and if you want to see more, sign up for Practical Magick for Modern Witches: Part Two! We can’t wait to see you there! <3

6 ways to take your spiritual practice on the go

6 ways to take your spiritual practice on the go

If you travel a lot, you might have realized that it can be really hard to stay in touch with your spiritual side when you’re on vacation. Especially if you’re traveling with family or friends – while it’s usually nonstop fun, the key word there is “nonstop.” Everyone wants to hang out and do things and you feel bad saying no, even if you’re starting to feel a little disconnected from your spiritual practice. Have you ever felt that way before?

I travel kind of a lot, mostly because my parents live ten hours away in a different state and I like to go visit them. I’ve had to come up with a few ways to keep up with my spiritual practice even though I can’t exactly bring my whole altar with me when I go. Here are 6 ways I like to take my spirituality “on the go!”

6 ways to take your spiritual practice on the go

1. take a book

I love taking books wherever I go – the back seat of my car looks like a (very disorganized) traveling library. I’ve found it’s really helpful for me to take books that are relevant to my spiritual practice with me on trips, because while it’s often hard to carve out time to actually practice my spirituality on vacation (doing a moon ritual while my family members look on in horror? no thank you) it’s often much easier and less conspicuous to find time to read.

Having a book about my spiritual practice on hand helps me stay connected to that part of me even when the rest of my routine might be disrupted. I especially like bringing books about tarot, since I usually have a deck with me as well. Some of my favorites (these are affiliate links) are:

  • 78 Degrees of Wisdom
  • The Creative Tarot
  • The Tarot Coloring Book (fun to read AND to color, I bring this on plane rides!)

2. create a travel altar

I’ve seen these all over Tumblr and while I haven’t officially made one yet, I think they’re a great idea! Take an empty Altoids tin or other small container and fill it with some tiny versions of your essentials – a tea light candle, a tiny stick of palo santo, some little crystals, a sigil drawn on the tin itself, a picture of your deity, etc. This way if you DID want to do a ritual while you’re away from home, you have all the components you need right with you!

If you don’t want to go all-out and create a little kit, you can still bring a few small items with you just in case you’d like to use them. I have a little pouch that I keep some crystals in while traveling so they don’t get damaged, and I always have a tarot deck and my favorite essential oils on hand as well! I know that in a pinch, I could use those items to craft a spell or ritual if I really had to (like if I needed a spell to help me find something, or for safe travels.)

6 ways to take your spiritual practice on the go

3. collect new items from your destination

Vacation is a great opportunity to connect with a different environment than the one you’re used to. Maybe you live in a landlocked area but are visiting the sea, or vice versa. It’s a fun idea to collect natural items from your destination that you can use in your spiritual practice in the future. For example, collecting seawater or seashells to use in a future spell or ritual (I did this over the summer when I went to North Carolina!) or maybe finding a nice-looking stick that you could use to make a wand.

Even if you don’t come away with anything, spending time experiencing a new area will give you a chance to observe how nature looks and feels in a new place. This can help you deepen your appreciation for this beautiful planet, which to me is a spiritual act in and of itself!

4. bring a deck

As I mentioned above, I always like to have a tarot deck with me. Tarot and oracle decks are amazing spiritual tools that also happen to be really portable. It’s easy to spend a few moments each morning drawing a card for your day, which gives you practice and keeps you rooted in your spiritual routine even while you’re away.

It’s also good to have them on hand just in case you end up needing them! It can be fun to read for new friends you meet during your travels, or to consult them if you’re having a personal crisis of some kind. It can never hurt to have a deck you love and understand on hand.

6 ways to take your spiritual practice on the go

5. carve out some alone time

With all the hustle and bustle that goes on during vacations, it’s a good idea to find some alone time to help you center yourself and do some of the things you like to do every day back home. I think the biggest problem (at least for me) is that I feel like if I can’t have a whole hour to myself at least, it’s not even worth it. But that’s not true! Fifteen minutes is enough time for you to meditate if you wanted, draw some cards, do some yoga, or just sit there in thought without distraction.

You might not get to do all of the things you’d normally do as part of your routine, but something is better than nothing. Keeping those habits alive for just a few minutes a day will make it easier for you to get back into the swing of things at home.

6. journal

Finally, journaling is something you can do from anywhere! Write about how the trip makes you feel. Do you feel disconnected in your new surroundings, or do they make you feel alive? Is this trip making you realize anything about yourself? Often I find that trips make me feel REALLY inspired in one way or another, but if I don’t write that down then it ends up being totally lost! A trip can disrupt your everyday routine just enough for you to realize what’s working and what’s not. Use that to your advantage and take note of every little detail – you can sort through it all when you come back.

So those are my tips for keeping up with your spiritual practice when you’re on the go! While it might not look the same as your everyday spiritual practice, it’s a good opportunity to try new things and gather a new perspective.

What are your favorite ways to stay in touch with your spirituality when you’re on the go? I’d love to hear all about it! <3

my magickal morning routine

my magickal morning routine

As I’m still living the full-time work-from-home life for the moment, I thought it might be good to share my morning routine now that I’ve made an effort to incorporate a few more spiritual components to it! This is still not my dream routine, but I just can’t make myself wake up early enough to do all the things I want to do before I start working, so this is what we’ve got.

The whole process only takes about a half hour to an hour, depending on what I have time for, so I think parts of it are pretty doable even if you have a job to get to first thing in the AM (those hours-long morning routines alway kill me – who can possibly wake up that early?! I would consider myself a morning person, but above all I’m a BED person, and once I’m in there I’m not coming out until I have to.)

I will throw in the disclaimer that this is what my routine looks like on a good day. Let’s not kid ourselves, I don’t do all of this every single day. Sometimes I oversleep and the only routine I have is the internal screaming going through my head as I frantically respond to the emails that have already piled up. So like, take this with a grain of salt.

As much of my morning routine takes place in my office/workspace, I have this idea of getting a “morning routine candle” to light as I’m going through my process and blow out afterwards as a special little extra touch. I haven’t done this yet – I want a REALLY big, nice-smelling candle so it’ll last a while and be super calming – but I figured I’d share that idea with you in case you wanna do that, too. You’re welcome.

So let’s jump into my magickal morning routine!

my magickal morning routine

1. coffee or tea

The first thing I do in the morning is get some caffeine into my system. I prefer tea but sometimes it’s just a coffee kind of day, you know? I usually brush my teeth and feed the cat and all that stuff while my beverage is brewing, and then I take it into my office to drink/use as a photo prop for Instagram pics (no shame!)

2. essential oils

Since I don’t currently have a nice-smelling candle, I like to pop an essential oil blend into my diffuser to invigorate my nostrils first thing in the morning. (Essential oils obviously have a whole lot of other benefits aside from just smelling nice, too!) I’ll either use one of the blends I already have (I use Young Living oils) or make my own by mixing and matching single oils, which is always fun!

My current favorite blend is 2 drops each of Thieves, Orange, Ginger, and Cinnamon Bark. Seriously smells like a craft store around fall-time. So good! Let me know if you have a blend you’re loving right now, I want to try them all!

my magickal morning routine

3. gratitude

I have an adorable little gratitude journal from Kikki K that makes it really easy to make time for being grateful. I’ll write down three things I’m thankful for that day and take a minute to think about them. Starting the day with a mini gratitude ritual, as cheesy as it sounds, really does help me get int he right headspace and focus on what I have rather than stressing about what I don’t.

4. daily draw

I draw a few tarot cards for myself almost every day! I don’t always write them down (I should) and I don’t even always do this as a personal reading – sometimes I just use it as an opportunity to study the cards and spend some time with them. I use oracle cards a lot, too, especially if I just want some quick wisdom to carry throughout my day. I love this part of my routine because even when things are chaotic, it gives me a chance to connect with a tool that’s important to me and my practice. (And it feels witchy AF.)

my magickal morning routine

5. journaling/planning

This is where things start to go off the rails if I’m in a rush. In a perfect world, I’d have all the time I want to journal. I have a little art journal that I make collages in, which I find super calming and also fun. (Planning a post on it later this month, woo!)

However, sometimes by the time I’m done with all the other stuff it’s getting close to noon and I’ve done diddly squat for my freelance work, which doesn’t really leave me a lot of time to get crafty. Luckily, I also have a planner that’s near and dear to my heart and covering it in stickers provides enough of a therapeutic benefit for me to be able to get on with my day. I like to decorate my planner with washi tape because it’s super easy and quick but looks like you put a lot of time and effort into making it cute.

My planner is this Frank Garcia for Prima one, which is ridiculously expensive but super cute! I’m okay with investing in planners since I use mine every single day of my life. I bought it when I still had a full-time job and would probably never spend this much on a planner again, but I’ve no regrets about having it now!

6. guided meditation

I really love guided meditations! Sadly, this is one of the first things to go out the window if I’m in a rush. Sometimes I come back and do it in the afternoon instead, but more often than not I just totally forget. I’m working on it though, because meditation is honestly, truly so calming (and so good for you!)

So that’s my morning routine! After that I’m ready to kick some butt and get things done.

Do you have a morning routine? What do you like to do? Let me know in the comments, I’d love to know! <3

affordable witchcraft: 7 inexpensive essentials

affordable witchcraft: 7 inexpensive essentials

Hey friends! So a lovely commenter mentioned on my Witchcraft Tips for Newbies post that it might be a good idea to write a post about simple and inexpensive rituals that would be accessible for beginner witches (thanks Delfin!). I thought that was an awesome idea, but I’m actually going to break it up into two posts! This first post is going to be about inexpensive materials you either already have or can find at the dollar store/in your backyard to use in your practice, and the next post will be two simple rituals you can use them for (one for the new moon and one for the full moon!)

As much as I love posting Instagram pics of my deck and crystal collections, the honest truth is you don’t need any materials at all to be a witch. None! Just you and your intentions. The other truth is that inexpensive or handmade materials are just as good as expensive store-bought ones, and sometimes even better if you’ve poured your love into making them. So while I think these materials are relatively cheap and easy to come by, don’t think you need all of them or even any of them to get started in your craft.

This post might make some traditional witches mad because I talk about digital resources towards the bottom, but I believe witchcraft should be accessible to everyone who wants it and I don’t believe in gatekeeping. Learning how to be a witch from the Internet doesn’t make you any less of a witch than someone who was raised by witches and joined a coven as a fetus (or whatever.) It’s okay if your journey doesn’t look like someone else’s, and it’s not okay to poo-poo someone’s practice because they took a different path than you. Every witch is a real witch so let’s just get along!

Without further ado, let’s get started!

affordable witchcraft: 7 inexpensive essentials

1. Candles

Candles are my #1 witchcraft essential. I love burning candles not only for the energy and power they lend to a spell or ritual, but because they look really witchy and cool. That’s probably not the most important reason to have them, but the mood is important in witchcraft! However, you don’t need any of those giant drippy taper candles or whatever that you see on Instagram (even if they’re gorgeous). My favorite candles to use in spells and rituals are tea lights from the dollar store. It was literally $1 for a pack of them and I use them ALL the time. Tea lights are great because you can let the candle completely burn down as part of your spell or ritual if necessary without having to worry about guarding it 24/7 for days until it’s done so you don’t burn your house down. It gives you a couple hours of burn time which is more than enough in most cases!

2. Sticks and stones and nature stuff

Witchcraft is essentially a nature spirituality, so what better way to decorate your altar or sacred space than with nature? Crystals are pretty, but they can be expensive. A pretty stone from the backyard – or even better, from a natural place that has meaning to you – can serve as an equally powerful representation of earth on your altar (although they won’t necessarily have the same vibrational qualities as crystals, but tbh there are some pretty cheap smaller stones on Etsy if you’re desperate for crystals in your life.) You can make your own wand out of a stick and use pebbles to shape out a pentacle on your altar (or whatever shape you want!) You can use fresh flowers as offerings to your deities or just for decoration. Tools don’t have to be expensive – the original pagans couldn’t exactly hop on Etsy and order a custom-made altar cloth. If you want to buy fancy things for your practice, that’s totally fine and you should do it, but know that you don’t NEED those things in order for your magick to work.

affordable witchcraft: 7 inexpensive essentials

3. A notebook and a pen or pencil

This is super important. You’re going to want to keep some sort of record of your witchy journey – what spells worked, what didn’t, what rituals you did and when. But the thing is, you don’t need a fancy grimoire to make this happen. The cheapest notebook from Walgreens will work just fine. If you’re a perfectionist like I am, you can always use the cheap notebook to take all your messy notes and transfer the important ones to a fancy book later when you can afford one that you like, but don’t let the lack of a fancy notebook keep you from writing things down. No one ever has to see it but you!

4. Water

Water is a super versatile tool and it’s free from your sink! Although purified water is ~best~, who has time for that? You can make “purified” water on your own by adding salt to it. You can use this as a cleansing spray (adding essential oils if you want to make it smell nice) or leave it to charge under the full moon to make moon water. You can collect rain during a storm if you want stormwater, or collect it from a lake or ocean if that has meaning to you. You can put some water on your altar as a representation of the element or sprinkle it around your space when you’re casting a circle (if you’re into that.) Basically water can be used for as many things as your imagination allows, so don’t underestimate what you can do with it!

affordable witchcraft: 7 inexpensive essentials

5. A picture frame

One of the easiest ways to decorate your altar or sacred space is by framing an image of something that’s important to you. This could be a depiction of a deity that you work with (since statues and other representations can be expensive!), a picture of a place in nature that makes you feel serene, a picture of the ocean if you’re a sea witch… the possibilities are endless! I personally keep a framed print of my favorite tarot card in my workspace just because it makes me happy to look at it. There are no rules, but a simple picture frame can easily become a lovely centerpiece for your sacred space.

6. Pinterest

I LOVE Pinterest for witchcraft because it makes everything so easy. Not only is it a great resource for hacks and spells to do on the cheap, but I use it to make vision boards all. the. time. As much as I wish I could be a crafty person, I’m just not, so I prefer digital vision boards to the IRL variety. You can also use Pinterest to make boards dedicated to your deities or to keep a virtual Book of Shadows of a sorts. You can make the boards private on Pinterest so only you can see them and you can have as many as you want! It’s a great source of information and an awesome manifestation tool.

7. Tumblr

Who needs books when you have Tumblr? (My book-loving heart just died a little, but hear me out.) Books about witchcraft and Wicca can be hard to find in physical stores and potentially expensive if you order them online. While there’s a lot of great wisdom to be found in books, there’s also a lot of wisdom on the Internet for free. I really recommend Tumblr as a good place to learn about witchcraft – while of course there’s misinformation out there, there’s also a lot of really great tips, links to resources that people use and love, recipes, examples of grimoires and altars, etc, etc. You can also use your Tumblr blog as a little virtual record of your practice, which is nice. Basically Tumblr lets you see what real people are doing, which can be helpful as you sort through all the mess of resources that are out there. Also, while sometimes people go overboard, Tumblr witches are a lot more woke to the issues of racism, sexism, and cultural appropriation that unfortunately crop up in the witch community pretty often. It’s good to learn early on that these things aren’t okay rather than having to un-learn them after they’ve unwittingly become a part of your practice.

So there you have it! Like I said, you don’t need any of these things to be a witch but if you want them, they’re not very expensive. I hope this post was helpful! If you have any other inexpensive tools or recommendations, be sure to leave them in the comments! <3